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.:Man Egoism:.

08 Apr

“i am a man, so i am the one who make the decisions for the family.”

“this is a job for man, not suitable for woman, i will do this.”

“take care of the family is the responsible for the man.”

“i am your bf, you must agree with me.”

all the sentences above simply show that what is the meaning of Man Egoism. in mandarin we call this “Da Nan Ren” and “Dai Nam Yan” in cantonese. direct translate to english simply means “Big Man”…LOL~~but when ppl call u a “big man”, dun happy too early, becuz it can be a good thing or bad thing…depends on the situation…

ok..as a man, i talk bout man egoism in a man point of view…from childhood times, we are taught that boy are stronger than a gal…my mama told me never bully girls in school…boy need to protect them…n even there is a song “Nan ren bu gai rang nv ren liu lei” which means man should never let a woman cry…so we realized that protect woman is a man’s responsible since we are kids…especially kids from typical family which daddy is working outside and mommy housewife…they will think daddy very macho…and one day in the future…they want to be the same man like tat too…

besides that, i felt that men is the most kiasu animal in the world…LOL~~they like to compare everything in their life…they compare their cars, they compare their girlfrens, n the most interesting is they like to compare their sex ability…no man want to be a loser…i think is cause by the testosterone…Lol~n i think becuz of testosterone…men have very strong pride on them..the most important thing for a man is dignity and pride…u can play whatever u want wit a man…but don’t challenge their dignity and pride…they will kill u for that…

act every man are ego, just how extreme of the egoism can be…i admit that i have the man egoism blood in my body too…for me, man egoism can be a good or bad thing…depends how u possess it~~ ego man normally are stronger, confident, more independent, and they have own view for certain thing…n this is why make a ego man better than others…but if the ego they possessed come to an extreme situation, they will started to be selfish, like to control, over confident and arrogant…so..at the end of the day is how we balancing our ego…(how we play with our testosterone..LOL!!)…i think besides of ego…balancing of pride also is an issue a guy should looking at…

i asked many gals before…most of them hate man egoism…n the kind of hate is not normal hate…is those extreme hate…i can feel the pitch of the tone getting higher and the eyes starting to burn whenever i talk to them regarding this…lol~~but very weird…i found out that…some of the gals r act like “big man”…they think “big man” are macho, can be trusted and can rely on them…

in chinese, we always said that..one kind of rice feed hundred type of ppl…quite true…for men, pls try not to be too ego…control ur machoness…cuz u dun wan to lose the gal u like becuz of ur man egoism….for women, they are thousand of men out there…if u cant tahan the man ego…choose the one tat can sacrifice their ego n pride for u…n he still can be the one u like~~win-win situation~~ =p

everything in this world is more than one angle…see things in different angle..n u will get better view…

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21 Comments

Posted by on April 8, 2008 in Faiker Crapping

 

21 responses to “.:Man Egoism:.

  1. Jackie

    April 8, 2008 at 1:34 pm

    Big Manism! This is another term to call it..lolz! i suppose u wont learn how to control ur egoizm until you have actually experienced being in or seeing a situation like that….even though some of us know that we’re too ego….its because of the ego that we DON’t wanna admit that we’re ego….
    in the end..saying sorry also becomes so hard…

     
  2. Faiker

    April 8, 2008 at 1:37 pm

    its because of the ego that we DON’t wanna admit that we’re ego….
    in the end<—-i think is back to the selflying thingy again~~
    huhu~~~
    good one–big manism!!!

     
  3. Edwin

    April 8, 2008 at 6:23 pm

    “…playing with testosterones…”

    “…compare sex ability…”

    LOLZ!!!!!~

     
  4. Faiker

    April 8, 2008 at 7:02 pm

    edwin: haha~ the good example is ur roomate la…always use _[]_…n say himself like a canon!! LOL~~~then butthead also~ always say how geng is him~~LOL!!!!

     
  5. Edwin

    April 8, 2008 at 9:30 pm

    ya lor… UNfortunately… i straight away thought bout kevin when i read yur latest entry…lolz

    always boasting bout how “big” his _[]_ is… haha…!
    sorry kev…! but it’s a fact tat u boast out loud bout it! hehe…

    Voodoo!!! haih…. terfikir the day we saw his @$$ while studying in the living room together! lolz!!!!

    rephrase : we were “forced” to see it…haha..!!!

     
  6. Faiker

    April 9, 2008 at 2:53 am

    butthead is proud wit his butt~~ lol~~
    i miss butthead~~ dam!!! lol~

     
  7. Joshua

    April 9, 2008 at 3:49 pm

    there’s so much i want to comment on this.. but just couldn’t let it out from my head right now… maybe after some sleep, promise to be back later… haha.. interesting topic btw~

     
  8. whoppeesoul

    April 10, 2008 at 4:13 am

    “…from childhood times, we are taught that boy are stronger than a gal…my mama told me never bully girls in school…boy need to protect them”

    then why u alwiz bully me?!??!?!?!?!!! dont give me reply like “coz u r not a girl” k

    “… n the most interesting is they like to compare their sex ability…”

    no wonder u alwiz boast about ur size la..

     
  9. S型•樱戈子

    April 10, 2008 at 4:34 am

    man egoism,de term here^^
    thanx 4 teaching me dat!!
    男人不该让女人流泪,do u hear女人不该让男人太累b4?
    will u treat ur gal like dat next time?
    by de way,i can sure dat u wun treat ur frens like dat…

     
  10. Faiker

    April 10, 2008 at 5:45 pm

    Kareen: my mom say dun bully gals in school…din say dun bully gals in uni le!! LOL~~ wakaka!!!

    Joshua: so much to comment? cuz u r one of them? ego man?

    yingirl: yup~ gals shudn’t let guy too tired~~ LOL!! agreed!

     
  11. Joshua

    April 10, 2008 at 9:26 pm

    fai: ego man? wtf.. i am like the humblest guy u can find on planet earth.. minus a couple of hundred others… hehe.. but then again, i still couldn’t let out my comments… maybe i’m already bored bombarding you.. exhausted from ideas for the moment… stress giler , exams near already…. u on the other hand seems like you own the world, so free… blog has been updating frequently..

     
  12. Faiker

    April 10, 2008 at 11:27 pm

    oh bro~ good luck for ur exam ya~~
    i wanna see u become a lawyer~
    God bless!

     
  13. khian

    April 11, 2008 at 2:40 am

    I would like to see a man, who really has “manism”. I think maybe I am lil boyish, think the only guy who can really win my heart would be someone, who’s even more manly (than I am)..haha..
    but it’s hard to find such men lying around, because either the girls have grown tougher, or the guys are turning into big sissies..

     
  14. faiker

    April 11, 2008 at 2:41 pm

    good luck for looking ur big man, khian~~

     
  15. Joshua

    April 11, 2008 at 3:25 pm

    fai: thanks..something nice from u for a very long time

     
  16. Kareen

    April 11, 2008 at 5:02 pm

    “thanks..something nice from u for a very long time”

    sounds hilarious to me..can feel that joshua wrote the comment when he was too tired and was lost for words because he felt so touched that ah fai finally say something nice! aha..btw, good luck to u joshua~:D

    aha, i agree with khian. We would love to see a man, who really has “manism” with less ego. 😉

    “…..that i have the man egoism blood in my body too…for me, man egoism can be a good or bad thing…depends how u possess it~~ ego man normally are stronger, confident, more independent, and they have own view for certain thing…”

    most of the time, [from my own observation], egoism turn out to be a bad thing. egoism ruins relationship and friendship and still by the end of the day, egoism still rules because guys will normally not apologize. To them, it’s all the girls’ faults/mistakes and they’re always damn right eventhough they’re wrong.

     
  17. Faiker

    April 12, 2008 at 3:39 am

    joshua: very long time better than dun hav right? is never too late~~ =)

    kareen: tats y…find an ego man which can say sorry to u~ good luck!!

     
  18. Joshua

    April 12, 2008 at 10:39 am

    sounds hilarious to me..can feel that joshua wrote the comment when he was too tired and was lost for words because he felt so touched that ah fai finally say something nice! aha..btw, good luck to u joshua~:D

    -> ya very tired… and this guy is so free lately, non stop updating his blog..it’s kinda good anyway..at least i have something to keep me entertain..

    most of the time, [from my own observation], egoism turn out to be a bad thing. egoism ruins relationship and friendship and still by the end of the day, egoism still rules because guys will normally not apologize. To them, it’s all the girls’ faults/mistakes and they’re always damn right eventhough they’re wrong.

    -> oooh kareen, you’re so darn wrong about this.. i have seen many guys, so many that i’ve lost count.. who always seems to make the first move apologizing to the girls.. even if they are not the ones at fault.. yaya, i admit i am one of them.. but girls these days have even more ego in them than a peacock, and their stubbornness would make a donkey look tractable.. why i say this? well, basically they (females) will not give in albeit they realized they are the ones blameworthy. However, once they (females) are melted by the “sorries” from their counter-sex, only then they will admit to their wrong doings.. It’s a proven fact i must say! Years go by, times fly and things change, females these days tend to seek more gender equality compared than before..Thus they seems to be more protective about their right, over-protective actually…and guys are not suppose the ones who are always at blame.. the girls should also look at the mirror, give a slap to their face (metaphorically speaking) and wake up for the sake of a better relationship..

     
  19. Joshua

    April 13, 2008 at 10:27 am

    fai: lolz,you’re right… i didn’t expect much from u anyway..

     
  20. Faiker

    April 13, 2008 at 10:53 am

    josh: wah!!! say till like tat la…i remember tat!!!

     
  21. Joshua

    April 13, 2008 at 2:24 pm

    haha… face it… i am right

     

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