.:Self-lying:.

recently i read an article regarding self-lying…quite interesting…

“Self-lying is just that, lying to yourself.  We all do it, daily in fact.  We may call it by other names, justify it, ignore it, or give in and believe it without even knowing what we are doing.”

–>quite true, as a ordinary human being, we always not knowing what we are doing…do you lie to yourself? if the ans is NO…then your are lying~~ wakaka~

“So is ‘anything’ the truth?  As you see, we often say things, and even believe them, but they are lies.  We may call them exaggerations, but that is another lie.  To believe something that is simply not true is a lie.”

–>i agreed too…i told kareen i will belanja her makan (is a lie)…where to makan…Jogoya (exaggerate lie)…n kareen even believe it…she is lying to herself!!!lol~~

“Once in a while, we sense that something is not right.  We have the ability to know every time, but we do not use it. There are times when you are confused, you know that something is not right with what someone is telling you, but at the same time you feel that they are telling the truth.  So you are confused as to whether they can be trusted or
not because you have mixed feelings.”

–>lie is beautiful…n human likes beautiful stuff…so sometimes even we doubt, we told ourselves to believe it one time~ n if it fails…we will tend to repeat the same mistake one more time~we just love lie and being lied…aren’t we?

“If you meet someone you don’t really like, you may say that we should have lunch some time.  You may really believe it at the time you are saying it, but in reality that is a lie
because you have no desire to ever share a meal with this person.”

–>sometimes, what u think is truth can be a lie too…so next time when i say lets have lunch some time, u shud get what i mean…(same go with if i say “fxxk u”) LOL!!!!

“When you tell the truth, you never have to remember what you said.” The truth is the truth, it does not change.

–>yup…i really like this quote…now i realize why i keep repeating something in my mind..i tot i am reminding myself …but i am lying to myself..its kind of sad right?

“It is very difficult to see your own self lying. You have been  lying to yourself for so long and have become so good at it that you cannot notice the lies any longer.”

–>i mentioned before that, get used to something doesn’t means that u like it…is just turning into habit…so pls forgive me if i din keep my promise to some of u…i am not lying…just tat i dunno i cant do it~~ i tot i can…but i cant…

hmmm….self-lying act is not a big fault or wat…nobody will send u to jail or watever…is not against the law…for me, i feel tat little bit of self-lying is good…NOT exaggerate one~self-lying sometimes is like giving hope to urself…motivate urself and make urself  feel comfortable…

who doesn’t wan to live wit hope? if i were choose, i wan to live in lies rather than live hopeless…(the lies i means here, not those big lies or wat..are white lies…the lies that can make ppl feel good and comforting hurt soul~)..

haiz~i guess i am a self-lying person~ =p

~ by Faiker on March 31, 2008.